Like a decent wine reduction, it is time, boil my life down to its essence,it's most intense flavors, it's thickest parts. Adding heat is the quickest way to do this, but not always the most productive or savory. Slowly and with no small measure of stirring, the journey begins again.....like a new pan of juice with the next batch of emotional flavors. Start over....try again, get it to the essence, the core, the real substance.
Then I will know.....